Compare them to each other.
ONLY CHILD: Being uninspiring, clinginess, and boredom.
A twin will need to be able to be completely content with themselves and who they are before being able to trust themselves enough to fall in love.
An oldest knows exactly what they want and isn’t afraid to ask for it.
Youngest: You can err of the side of impulsivity and selfishness, and while that’s totally fine when you’re single, it’s incredibly unfair when you’re in a relationship.
People fall for oldest children because they get a glimpse of the potential their life has, and once you see that you never want to let it go.
It’s been heavily instilled in you as a middle child to be compliant and non-confrontational. While this can be a great asset (you’re calm and not easily shaken) it can also be your fatal flaw.
When you stop dating an oldest child, you lose someone who instantaneously made your life better simply by being in it.
Although I have learned to forgive those who are unaware of the insensitivity they have towards twins, the whole twins are a package deal idea has been affecting me since childhood.
For a middle child there’s nothing worse than when someone else (family or otherwise) swoops in and wins the metaphorical talent show.