What I’ve learned, though, is that human beings are malleable and fluid creatures that are in a constant state of becoming.
Be proud of yourself. You’re still here, surviving.
You’ve gone through heartbreak, and whether you are fully over it now or are still healing, you’ve learned that you are so much stronger than you ever could have guessed.
Gemini: You make everything more exciting.
The quarter life crisis happens to a lot of people; don’t let it get to you too much. As Leslie Knope once said, “I love personal crossroads.” It’s okay to just enjoy it and do your best.
“Taking my girlfriend back after she cheated on me. It made me paranoid and distrustful of her and she ultimately cheated again anyways. It was an awful several months and put a damper on the whole year for me, as if 2016 wasn’t shit enough.”
The career you have right now does not have to be set in stone, if you don’t want it to be.
“My older sister telling me that this was the first relationship she had ever seen me in that was functional, healthy, and GOOD. And that if I tried to walk away, that I was a fool. The word ‘fool’ is what got to me.”
You are in a situation where good work ethics and determination will only get you so far. You have to keep in mind that fashion equals change, which means you need to be one step ahead of the game at all times.
Not having money is shitty, but staying home while all your friends are out having fun is even more shitty.