some truths are harder to swallow.
Don’t rush darling the world will unfold on its own. You are young, vibrant, driven and free. There are endless possibilities for you, you will see.
You’re choosing to stay stuck instead of moving forward with your life. Everything in life is a choice. You make thousands of decisions every day. You have the option to stay stuck in the shitty situation you’re in or you have the ability to move on and move forward. That’s all on you.
But here is my secret: I am a liar too. Or I was, for much of my life. I remember the moment when I realized that I had a hand in what type of reality another would live by. That I could carve out my own secret nook beneath others’ expectations and exist in that delicious, sovereign space.
Do I need to hear that I look tired or that my outfit makes me look fat? Probably not. I mean, I can figure that out for myself, I’m a big girl. I don’t really need to have it broadcasted to me over breakfast.
Make a list of places or people you might want to work with. Then come up with a list of 10 ideas for each of them that can make them money.
It’s not about god. It’s not about a book. Or a history. Or a war. It’s about how I can live today the best possible life.
Certainty was the hardest thing for me to accept that I needed. Accepting that I was scared and lonely without it. That’s it’s ok to be a bit needy for stability.
You’ve got to evaluate where the market is today. What are people disregarding? What are they believing?
Because it’s hard to sit there and write a book. Really really hard. Someone should write a book how hard it is.