ESFJ and ISFJ: Because you’re used to giving more than you get back.
Sagittarius: Your trust issues rise to the surface whenever you take a new step in your relationship. You’re used to being single, so moving in with someone, labeling them as your life partner, and marrying them are huge milestones.
In a world full of maybes; maybe you just need to keep on dating.
“She was the type of girl who deserved to know. She’s also the type of girl who deserves a guy who doesn’t cheat on her, and that’s what I told her.”
“I don’t care when you became hungry, or what caused your hunger, as long as you’re eating at home.”
Fear builds walls. Courage builds bridges.
There will be times when you will feel alone. This, the overwhelming feeling of not knowing what to do because all of this is new, is normal.
That’s how fragile trust is. One minute you know a person, and the next minute they transform before your eyes, becoming someone foreign and strange and terrifying. Becoming someone you didn’t know they had the power to be. And there’s no going back.
It may take a bit of effort at first, but in the end it will be worth more than anything else.
Support isn’t a one way street. If you feel you’re giving too much and getting nothing in return, you’re probably giving too much to the wrong person.