Men and women in general, though, will always have affairs. Relationships forged outside the confines of conventional institutions like marriage are often an escape. Fantasies give us fuel, and society encourages adultery by playing up the cache inherent in our animal roots.
Have you ever been in a relationship and wondered WHERE your man is? Have you wondered why he takes secret phone calls? Have you even questioned why, after all this time, you still haven’t met his family?
Let me give some advice and you probably will not like it, break down that wall you have so meticulously constructed.
Does he love her? Yes, from the bottom of his heart. Does he love me too? I don’t think so, but we have each other.
Shying away means once, at some point, someone didn’t touch me with kindness. Someone didn’t kiss me with honesty.
Don’t let people talk you out of what could be the craziest adventure of your life; long distance relationships can be great if you let them. Communicate, trust, and love. Distance doesn’t make one ounce of a difference if your eyes light up when they laugh.
When you sleep with a married man and he tells you how much he loves his wife, you tend to be hopeful that one day- a person will love you just as much.
I’d rather stitch myself back together than never know how it feels to come apart for someone wonderful.
Trust your instincts. If it doesn’t feel right, do not do it! So, you blow him off because your gut is telling you otherwise. Just because he seems nice and you find him drop-dead gorgeous does not mean you put all your eggs in one basket.
While there is a lot to talk about when it comes to affairs, I’m only going to focus on one specific area: the emotional impact on the person having the affair.