You pursued her every single day. You showed her what true love feels like until she forgot the pain. Until she realized she was worth loving, she was worth keeping and that there was no point in running away.
So don’t chase after them when they call you back. Don’t fill their loneliness up. Don’t fill your sadness up with their black heart. Don’t you dare settle for their half-hearted love that will only break you again and again.
Perhaps then, the real illusion is that we expect love to be effortless, easy and as natural as that initial feeling of falling. Yet once those dizzying romantic neurochemicals have subsided, we are left with an individual in front of us who is equally as flawed and complex as ourselves. But we were never told about this part of the story because this is the part that doesn’t sell.
In a world full of chances, you deserve to be someone’s first choice. You deserve to be with someone who knows who they want. You deserve someone who knows they are lucky because they have you in their life.
I’m done fearing losing you by letting you get away with everything that hurts me, everything I’ll never do to you.
So give yourself some loving before you plea for someone else’s love. Oh and, please know that you should find love from someone that is so amazing, rather than sticking to the second best, because you totally deserve it.
Do I believe in the rhythm of my heart?
Stop searching and looking. Stop thinking that one person is going to transform your life. Stop putting so much hope and belief into someone who you haven’t even met yet.
It’s OK to have a huge heart but know when to walk away. You deserve a man who will love you unconditionally. Understand that anything less than that is not true love.
I thought we were going to make it, all this time I felt so sure of it. And then you told me you didn’t feel that way, that you didn’t know if there was room for me and my heart shattered.