Spoiler alert: life is hard and messy. It’s also lovely and beautiful. Stop worrying about some deadline you’ve made up in your head or one that someone else, that’s not going through what you’re going through, has tried to push your way.
I hate that as a young girl growing up, I was bombarded with this false representation of how my breasts were “meant” to look, and so are young girls today.
Fat isn’t just an insult, or a word, or a joke. Being fat doesn’t just destroy you on the outside, it destroys you in the inside too.
“Why can’t black people just get over slavery? It happened over 400 years ago.”
Women are not the only ones oppressed by traditional gender roles, and that is why feminists fight to destroy them to not only benefit women, but men as well.
I’ve noticed this trend with people at cafes. It almost always happens when you’re in a hurry, and want to get your food and/or drink and GTFO. It’s when people make their own f*cking lines.
Listen – it’s ok to fail. It means you’ve tried.
I’d like to say firstly that I am a young single woman, college educated, and working full time.
We as women are put into a box – we can be pacified and accept these terms and conditions that come with our birth certificate, or we can challenge them.
We have to start complimenting girls on their intelligence, courage, determination and good heart instead of always trying to find beauty on their outside appearance.