If you’re single this Christmas embrace it.
I know so many attractive, fun, and intelligent young people (there’s one right here, typing this) that are single. Why is that?
I never fell for the Cinderella glass slipper crap. All of these fairytales seem so perfect and beautiful, but as we all know some of the time life is not so perfect.
The toilet seat will always be down.
Being single means that I can be selfish with my time, my finances, and my energy. No other time in my life will I be able to determine where those things go like I can when I am single.
INFJs are often perfectionists, and this extends to their relationships. Unfortunately, this can get in the way of focusing on true happiness in relationships.
I don’t want to get my hopes up to only have them crushed by being another friend or someone’s 2 AM booty call – I know I deserve more than that.
Don’t lower your standards because you think you’re being too picky.
I’ve become so comfortable in being alone through all the good and bad times I’m scared I won’t be able to open my heart to let someone in.
As far as me being the ‘single cat lady’ for life. Well, you’re probably right.