“My girlfriend handles the bugs in the house. I simply scream.”
You wouldn’t date a guy who doesn’t impress you, and it’s only reasonable to say it goes both ways.
“I like to be free to move around during sex, but tie me down during oral any day. That’s super sexy.”
When you settle for anything in your life, you might as well be dead. Because you aren’t living like you want to be here. And don’t you want to be here?
It’s being strong enough to let your guards down when you need to. It’s being strong enough to show your every emotions when you are feeling hurt or sad, without being ashamed of it. It’s having the strength to speak your truth no matter what other people say.
You’re sick of being disappointed. You don’t want to deal with heartbreak, so you try your hardest to avoid falling for anyone.
What was your favorite snack when you were a kid?
So what is it that I’m missing? Well, I can tell you this much, I’m missing out on a half-assed lover, lukewarm affection, and a generally unfaithful partner.
You don’t have any time to focus on your own goals and your own needs, because you’re too busy catering to what he needs. You’re sacrificing your happiness for his.
You will stop, but you will continue. You will be hurt, but you will be a human. You will be lost, but you will be found.