Scrolling through profiles more anxiety provoking than fun. Every date you go on has become increasingly frustrating and disheartening. You keep going back to the app expecting the outcome to be different. The app can provide you with the opportunity to meet lots of different people but it can’t provide you with genuine connection.
Love & Sex
If you act distant for one day, then we’ll assume that you’ve completely lost interest in us.
Compliment her hair or her eyebrows. She’ll appreciate it more than a raunchy comment about her ass.
“A man doesn’t exist in your life to solve your problems.” Many people keep relationships just because they are afraid of being single, to ease anxiety, or to share the bills. But my mom always defended that you should only be with someone because you purely want to be with that person and nothing else.
Guy who goes on fucking fantastic adventures. Two words: commitment issues. If half of his pictures are him backpacking across Europe, he’s only looking for something casual.
That girl in his Instagram pictures could’ve been you. Should’ve been you. You’ll stare at her for as long as your damaged ego can take, trying to figure out why he thinks she’s more attractive than you.
“I’m insecure about cumming too soon, I think that is every guys worry. No one wants to cum in 30 seconds, it’s embarrassing and it’s a huge turn off for her. So basically, like everyone dude, we just try to think of things that are non-arousing to last.”
He cared about me, as more than just a friend. More than he was expecting to. I was just as much of a surprise in his life as he was in mine. Neither of us were planning to fall for each other.
Be with someone who makes it exciting to be up early on a Monday morning, when you have class in an hour.
We too often use women, porn, or other men, to distract ourselves from that deep, unfulfilled longing inside our hearts that would have us fully surrender to love.