Whatever you focus on, your brain scans for. So if you’re thinking positively (or negatively), guess what your brain starts scanning for and seeing?
“Finding myself” in relation to my travels make it sound as if I actually left my right leg in Medellin, or something. But “finding myself” is exactly what I’m trying to do.
Because after 23 years of thinking that I knew my ethnic background — of thinking that I knew who I was — I have found out news that changes everything, but at the same time, nothing:
I am (probably) black.
Maybe all I need right now is me because I need to work on the relationship with myself. To fix the years I tormented myself. To mend the broken pieces. To reshape myself. To redeem myself.
Spending time alone will give you the opportunity to gather your thoughts, analyze your own life and change things that need to be changed. All of which will only take us closer to being self-sufficient people.
You need a lavish, self-healing solo trip that shakes you out of the funk you’ve been trapped in, and makes you realize how amazing life is.
“She threatened to sue her parents because they bought her a new car instead of giving her money.”
Here are 14 quotes to get you through this valley of distress and disappointment.
It’s hard to realize that you can be an inherently happy person and still struggle with anxious feelings. Here, a few signs that’s your case.