6. You’re afraid that you were the common factor in all of your past relationships and of course it is you, the evolving yet unchanging you, who is at fault in your repetitive tragedy.
Is it looking into a stranger’s eyes for the first time, getting this all-knowing intuition that you’re meant to be with them, the ever-elusive love at first sight? Or is it a growing feeling of unity that comes after years of building friendship and trust, the perfect foundation for an intimate future?
For some reason, I’ve noticed that more girls tend to be “victims” of this than guys, but that’s not to say it’s not a two-way street.
You’ve split up — often unpredictably and unexpectedly.
He gave me a picture of “him.” It was an old pic of him and his ex cut in half. He cut it right in front of me and put the other half back in his drawer.
We all want peace in the night, and to feel like we’re not so alone in the world.
What turns YOU on?
It doesn’t mean being a replica of another person, but rather being like a puzzle piece that fits perfectly with the other. Your traits complement each other to create better versions of you both.
The way their fingertips seem to hold the nerve endings to your skin.
In your arms, watching you like this, I gained stability and clarity. In that moment, I discovered a certainty I never wanted to awake from.