You need to find out what the negative motivation is that caused your ex to dump you, and then remove it. Because your ex was once in love with you, the removal of this negative motivation will make it significantly easier to make them fall in love with you again.
There have been times where you have seen me touch places in my brain that I cannot come back from. Dark places that try their damnedest to swallow me whole. But there you are. A light in the dark that helps keep me focused.
It can feel weird, to suddenly realize that you feel a physical ache within your body when you’re not around them. Or it can feel natural, like this is the sort of incredible discomfort that you’ve been waiting to feel your entire life.
I wish I had met you five years from now.
Because maybe then
I’d be writing love poetry
instead of words that are embedded
with your goodbye.
And maybe then
the world would actually give us a shot.
The truth is, I just wish you well. Always. I wish you steadiness when it’s hard to stay grounded. I wish you patience and passion. I wish you peace in yourself. I wish you love.
We failed at love. We failed at saying goodbye. We failed at letting go. And now we fail some more at moving on. We don’t know how to forget. And when we can’t forget, we don’t know how to live like we aren’t ghosts of our past selves.
Date someone will remind you of how beautiful you are, even when you feel bloated AF.
Love S.U.C.K.S, doesn’t it? Not “sucks,” but Seems Unusually Confusing & Kinda Scary. This book was written for those who feel a little dysfunctional in the world of relationships but haven’t quite given up hope on finding love, either.
Record yourselves having sex on a device you own. That way, you’ll feel like a porn star on set for a shoot, but you can delete all the evidence as soon as you orgasm.
Make sure she’s completely at ease, because that’s the only way she won’t feel any pain. I don’t care if you have to give her a back massage or whisper sweet nothings into her ear. Do whatever you can to relax her muscles.