In relationships, it’s normal after time to not always feel sparks or get butterflies…but don’t stop trying. Just because you’ve been dating for X amount of years, doesn’t mean it’s not constantly something to work on.
Dating is a tedious process, but the process makes us more cunning in terms of knowing the real motives, and reasons why you date the person.
It’s been two weeks since he went back South and I haven’t heard from him, because that’s how things have to be.
When I was younger, I thought soulmates only existed in the way that old fashioned movies would have us believe. The fanciful idea of a one and only was plastered into my mind as an unquestionable truth.
“Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant.”
So I’m lying in my bed the night that he unfollowed me and I realize I’m crying. Why am I crying? I don’t know the guy.
You see, it took the romance out of it. You click on someone, decide that the truths they decided to show were worthy enough, and you message them. No longer are the days of seeing someone across the room and introducing yourself.
Why is it so easy for us to settle for so much less than we deserve?
I wanted this girl. I wanted to call her mine. But she told me “she doesn’t do relationships”.
The Restriction: If you need to place restriction on someone in your life, something is wrong.