It’s mine. It’s all mine. I can’t give him up. I’m sorry.
Imagine you have been single for ages and finally meet an amazing guy. He treats you right and you always have so much fun together and he loves to cuddle.
Whether or not the marriage ends in divorce, it will be the only time she says, “I do.”
Ever since my grandfather walked out on him and his family, my dad dedicated his entire life to becoming the hardworking, successful man that he is today.
But no matter what, know that a military relationship is not for the weak of heart. If you have the discipline and love it takes to make it work for a period of time, then there’s very little you can’t do.
4. Someone who is going to fix things around the house for me, but more importantly, someone who will be patient when it was my fault for messing it up in the first place.
To have a partner, a true partner in a scary, confusing world? That’s amazing. But it’s not a healthy place for people who don’t have clear visions of who they are.
5. “You don’t really look gay.”
Your heart must consciously make a choice to let this person in — and that is the hardest part. Despite how terrifying it might be to put your feelings out there, you fail by default when you don’t make the choice to take a chance.
No, love might not (and probably won’t) look like the checklist you think it will. And if you keep your sights and hopes set on someone who doesn’t materialize, you’ll miss all the other people who come along and might surprise you.