Do the things that make you happy now or you’ll regret it later.
ALWAYS have the stocks app up on your phone.
Your personality is not a barrier to behaving like a responsible adult. The only barrier to that is self-indulgence.
When we don’t use problems as opportunities to examine our lives and make changes, we’ll stay stuck and keep experiencing the same problems over and over again.
As an adult woman working with young women, I can see a vicious cycle. The classic “hurt people, hurt people”. As a former “mean girl” and victim of bullying, I know that this is a cycle that has got to end.
Are the glory days all over? At 21 years old? At 25 years old? But how I see it? You can “adult” however you want. You’re young. You’re still free to do whatever you please.
I made the biggest mistake of my life when I saw that line dividing ‘casual’ and ‘falling for you’ and decided to cross it. I saw you and loving you and threw myself into a game where I didn’t know the rules and was ultimately destined to come in last.
I am growing up. Just not by everyone else’s standards.
I want you to remember: Change is hard, but it not a bad thing. College is meant to change you, you are not going to come out the same person.
You’re going to have to fix shit. Yourself. You’re going to be elbow deep in a toilet tank thinking … ‘this is my life now’