When a woman tells you no, that is the end of the conversation. It does not continue. You don’t find a loophole or think it just means you’ve got to try a little harder.
Knowing that you don’t have to hide your scars, your flaws and your insecurities from this person because you know they’ll be sharing theirs with you, too, makes your friendship special.
Act with kindness seeping out of your heart, even when there might not feel like there is any good left in the world because there is, I promise you there is.
An Aries love a straight shooter, and an independent person. If you have a life outside of your friendship or relationship with an Aries, they will respect you deeply.
I want our love to respect us, to respect the beauty of what we create together. And though I want our love to be a fighter, the kind that pushes and battles and draws every weapon it has just to stay in the war against goodbyes, I want our love to know when to walk away. When to lay down its arms. When to let go.
I learned that in order to demand respect from others you need to respect yourself first because if you don’t respect yourself you’ll allow others to walk all over you.
At the end of the day, it is your choice to stay in a relationship where someone disrespects you.
Was it my ragged four-year-old Chuck Taylor’s that made you exclaim “Hey beautiful!” as I walked by? Or was it my sweater that was two sizes too large that urged you to give me the pet name “Baby Cakes”?
Alcohol is never a valid excuse for harmful behavior. You better believe that consequences are real and once you sober up you are NOT off the hook for what you did drunk.
I wish we lived in a world where no meant no instead of yes — where a woman’s “no” was respected, on any and every level.