To all the girls madly in love and have ever been dumped – YES, it is your fault that guys like me cheat on girls like you!
He lets you borrow his sweatshirts.
This is what happens when the girl who hoped for more is broken, when she feels stupid for choosing to love someone who never wanted to love her back.
It’s not fair for you to text him, cuddle him, kiss him, and then find out that he’s not ready to date. That his last girlfriend left him lost. That he wants to stay single.
You’re single, because you refuse to accept compliments. You refuse to believe that anyone could find you attractive.
Boys call her emotional, because it’s easier to dismiss her feelings than to deal with them. It’s easier to call her psycho than to think about the words she said and find the truth hidden inside them.
Instant gratification is something we all chase. It’s what makes us feel good in the moment, but it’s only instant. It’s not long lasting. It falls apart quickly and it leaves us alone again.
Who knows if he meant what he said when he was drunk, who knows if that sex meant anything, who even knows if he’s talking to someone else?? Maybe you’re not the only girl he’s ‘talking to’ but you can’t ask because once again that makes you look fucking CRAZY.
Your life is full of unlimited options.
She believed me. She believed that what I was enduring was awful. She believed that it wasn’t my fault. And then she made a promise to me — the only promise she’s ever made to me in our ten years of friendship.