Caretakers and takers come together because both have much to learn with each other. Relationships between takers and caretakers have the necessary juice to stimulate growth in both, provided both people see this charged arena as a great gift.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in this whole process, it’s that we become like the people we spend time with, for better or for worse.
When you feel happy and whole, and are filled with love inside, you will want to share your love. You will want to learn and play and create with a loved one. Sharing love is the most wonderful experience in life.
What amazed me the most, was that as hard as I crashed into you, you were able to stand still without a scratch, while my heart instantly started to sink.
Aries: You’re scared of becoming boring.
This time, you know you’re worth and you not going to settle for a mediocre relationship. You realize you don’t want to be an option, you want to be his priority.
What people don’t understand is that you didn’t get heart broken because he wasn’t worth it.
ESFJ and ISFJ: Because you’re used to giving more than you get back.
I chose to forgive you because I deserved peace. I chose to let you go because I knew that I deserved someone better. Yet you chose to hate me when I decided to set you free.
“The sense of empathy I now feel for my ex! I really did like her, and thought about her daily. I was such a space cadet communicating that.”