We want the love that makes our toes curl and our shoulders go up at the sound of their name. We want a person who enjoys every part about us, even the parts that we ourselves don’t like so much.
Wanting a relationship, but settling for the casual tag.
By your fifties you still don’t grow into a person that can figure out how to fall in love with a person instead of a fantasy.
10. Kiss someone new. Don’t push for passionate. But try it. Seriously.
“No matter how hard you try, you will never be ‘one of the guys,’ so don’t take it personally if you don’t get invited to some things.”
My issue with lists is what the list seeks to do. It presents itself as a cheat, a life hack, and then leaves you with nothing.
The little quips that used to make you laugh now make you sigh and look out the window.
In being ‘girls who are willing to,’ we’ve lowered our expectations, upped our bullshit threshold, and stopped looking out for ourselves. And in doing that, we’ve actually stopped looking out for each other.
3. It can be lonely sometimes, to feel like the only person who craves companionship.
In the end, you will go to sleep each night knowing your life is a little more full than it was last year.