“Success” isn’t just having lots of money. Many people with lots of money have horribly unhappy and radically imbalanced lives.
“Lights off, lots of cunnilingus, we use blindfolds and restraints, with the lights off she doesn’t notice me closing my eyes.”
The truth is, you don’t know who you are without him. You can’t imagine how you survived this world without him next to you. You don’t remember what life was like before meeting him. And you don’t want to ever be in a world, where he isn’t in yours.
They forgive their parents.
Do I want a life with them, or do I just want a life with someone?
Have the strength to say goodbye because you know you deserve more than half hearted kind of love. And have the power inside of yourself to know that you are worth more than to be with someone who can’t even properly tell you how they feel about you.
We want the happily ever after, but we don’t want to put the effort in the here and now. We want the deep connection, while keeping things shallow. We long for that world series kind of love, without being willing to go to bat.
Even if one person in a partnership does their inner work, the entire system can change. So if your partner is not interested, don’t let that stop you from learning to love yourself!
You realize that there is more to love than saying “I love you” and there is more to a relationship than words. You realize that love is more than phone calls with abrupt endings. Love is more than endless talks about him, his hopes, and his dreams. It is more than waiting for him to ask about your day.
She’s sitting in brokenness, soaking her shirt in salty tears. She’s pondering what went wrong.