Declaring over and over again that you are a “nice guy” who “finishes last” will never end well. The label doesn’t mean the guy is kind or polite it means he is bland and submissive.
Every relationship must go through the darkness, to get to the light. It’s the effort you put in that makes a relationship work. It’s the fight that makes the difference, and the tears that water the weeds you planted a long time ago. And we all deserve relationships that bloom.
Change your hair. If he has a thing for blondes, but you’re a brunette and like it that way, don’t pick up a box of hair dye. Don’t grow out your hair for him if you like it short, either.
If you want a relationship and they want a one-night stand, don’t sleep with them. Sex isn’t going to magically make them change their opinion of you.
Did you get closure the first time or do you still need one?
I decided to open up. You are not ready for something now.
It is as if he can feel I am doing well off without him. The mere second I am distracted away from the thought of him, he arises.
There is someone you’ve never met, who’s heading your way, keen on finding you.
Tell me about the scar you have on your arm, tell me about all the times you felt you weren’t good enough, tell me about your dreams and what you’d do if you had nothing holding you back.