That being a mess is endearing.
Just like the saying goes, “you can’t move on to the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.” There’s no way you will ever move on completely if you don’t erase this person from your life entirely.
“Some women choose to follow men and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore” – Lady Gaga.
I didn’t feel any less or more committed than I did before I got married.
Friends don’t let friends end up like Katie Holmes.
I hope when you think about all the people I could have been kissing ever since you left, your gut twists as though you’ve swallowed a bowlful of worms. I hope you stare at your ceiling at night thinking, “Damn.”
You would break me down and then eagerly pick up the pieces. The floor of our tiny apartment was covered in eggshells. “This is your fault,” you’d insist. “If you’d never cheated then we’d never fight.”
They do not reach out. We do not reach out. The numbers just take up space, trophies of successful nights out and vague reminders of hangovers we have long since gotten over.
If you’re guilty of any of these, you can pretty much rest assured it’s why she never granted access.
“You think you’re a nice guy and maybe you are, but you’re not a good guy. Good guys don’t use people to ‘figure things out’ or as rebounds or replacements. You’re not a good guy and your niceness doesn’t make up for it.”