These self-depreciating, suburban white guys in ripped jeans are about as different as you can get from big, tough, black rappers from the projects, but both genres reproduce harmful ideas about women and relationships.

Among the ladies, there’s an ongoing popular web joke which really confuses me: “Drake wouldn’t treat me like this.” Which is a wild thing to say because, well, have you heard any of his lyrics? Drake is almost definitely worse than the fuck boy you’re messing around with right now. Don’t believe me?