It’s a chance to take on a new challenge.
Quarter Life Crisis
ESFJ and ENFJ – The realization that they may always be the one who loves more.
“What if I die alone with cats? I don’t even like cats.”
You have suddenly started to question everything. From your college major to your friend group to where you should live post-graduation and even as far as whether or not you’ve recently picked up a gluten allergy??!? Could that be a thing??
Up until now, I thought I had to have everything figured out. I was on such a formulaic track: get good grades in high school, get into a good college. Check. Check.
Never EVER tell your coworkers you’ve got free time.
I no longer think my purpose in this world is to write. I think it’s to love.
Friends are the perfect reality check, because who other than your friends are willing to share their biggest weaknesses with you?
This is not a race. The more you try to catch up with others, the more you are going to see yourself left out. You only have one maze to figure out, and it is your own.
You’ve lost your spark and you need to shake things up in order to get it back. Change won’t happen if you don’t make a change. What did you used to get super excited about as a kid? Skipping? Doodling? Making mini pizzas with questionable toppings? Re-visit the good times and bring them back! You’re never too old.