It’s not because I’m weak. It’s not because I lack self-respect. And it’s definitely not because I am a victim.
With men, let’s face it, they want to get in our pants–even if they’re willing to work for it–ultimately, that’s what it comes down to.
The truth is, they may never do anything physical in life. They may never cross the line. But a relationship can never be truly platonic if you have to set up boundaries.
“Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.”
4. You will hook up with one of them.
Falling in love with one’s best friend is one of the trickiest situations one could find one’s self to be in.
People like to say that men and women can’t have fulfilling platonic relationships. In the spring of 2012, I met the man who would almost instantly become my best friend for the next year.
Losing your friendship, if that’s what it was, may suck for the guy, especially if he had strong feelings for you. However, you ruined the friendship by ending it.
I’d like to believe that friendship is fluid and malleable enough to allow room to shift and move while still retaining what it originally was. I’d like to think that sex is too insignificant to change what we had for worse. Yet at the same time, I feel like something has to be different. There was something so intimate about being with someone who I know so well.
Both are pushed down in society, giving them a sense of understanding and empathy, because they each know what it feels like to be judged before you even open your mouth.