Maybe there’s a reason she’s more comfortable being alone. A reason she’s purposefully choosing solitude. A reason she’d rather hold her pillow than a person. A reason going home to what she’s expecting feels safer.
It was a moment, a click, a release, a new idea. An acceptance of the fact that maybe a relationship wasn’t something I was supposed to have, and that my life was still fulfilled without it.
“We are actually as emotional and sensitive as you, it’s just that societal norms dictate that we don’t express that lest we be emasculated.”
Gas-lighting / Manipulating. Constantly changing a standard with arbitrary goal-posts, to keep someone second-guessing.
He’s been scamming women via dating app by talking them up, taking them out to dinner and then skipping out before the check comes, leaving his date to cover the bill.
We would all agree that being in a relationship makes us emotionally dependent upon the significant other. We start counting on them to make us happy. And thus, we end up disappointed and broken. Whereas being single makes us emotionally independent and happy.
I understand that while you hold me in higher regards than just any other other woman, something inside of you can’t seem to feel the undeniable need to be with me.
Yes, I may have lost you, but in losing you, I found my way back.
The strongest girls are the ones who don’t fight the hurt.