Love and Relationships
Be strong enough to walk away from something that no longer helps you evolve.
Allowing someone to strip away your freedom is not going to make you happy.
In love, nobody truly gets to walk away without losing a little tissue.
Deep down, you know you’re okay. And as you walk with him to the bus stop, the conversation is light until a bus comes. He smiles, wishes you bon voyage. You ask him if you’re okay, if you’re good. He smiles and nods. He boards the bus, you walk home.
You’re wasting your time trying to change a tin man. You’re wasting on your heart on him. You’re wasting away and your getting so tired. So stop. Stop hoping that it will work out. Stop praying that he will be different tomorrow or the next day, or the next day.
They still see you as just another fish in the sea, they don’t see you as the main catch.
Someone may tell you they want a relationship when in truth they aren’t really ready for one and can either go on to sabotage it or slowly pull away or any number of things. Or, they may present one way and actually be another.
If there was a manual that could teach me how to unlove you, I would study it religiously.
See not all love stories end, but not all last too. Some are more fortunate than others, and some just will never survive the everlasting storms. But we are all human, craving the touch of another. And we all like to believe in a love that can save us. However, sometimes, people cannot be saved by another, they must save themselves.
I will take care of the man that you failed to respect. I will look after the man that was taken for granted.