The first guy who made me feel seen, but who didn’t care enough about himself to stay healthy and happy and sometimes I worry that he died before figuring himself out.
Being super into HGTV and homemake over shows. Remember when your mom used to watch this stuff and you’d sit there complaining about how ‘boring’ it was? Yeah, now you’re that boring adult who gets excited over counter tops and door knobs.
You sneer at tourists, while you are also a tourist.
Act like people’s ugly babies are cute for the sake of their feelings.
You shouldn’t feel bad for feeling bad.
People aren’t always going to be nice. That’s just a given, but that doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude back. Some people are going through some really hard times and they are channeling their energy in the wrong way, but that doesn’t give you the right to be rude back.
People aren’t worried about your life because they’re too busy worrying about what you’re thinking about their life.
It is important to remember to look after yourself first, because the positivity and love you create in doing so, can then be mirrored back into your surroundings.
Asking for help
A few years ago, I decided that it was time for a change in my life. Nothing too drastic, but definitely something noticeable. Who knew that cutting bangs would not only change the way I looked in the mirror, but also would change my identity as a whole.