You’re there when things are perfect. You’re there when things are shit. Because that’s what a real friendship in adulthood is.
Supposedly, this path that I’m on is my dream, a dream I had since I was a little girl, but dreams aren’t supposed to make you feel like this, a feeling of despair everyday, no motivation to get through the week because everything makes you unhappy.
Heartbreak comes in many forms and presents itself differently to every individual. It consumes you. It follows you. It is your constant companion.
You gravitate towards growth. Not because you’re made to feel like you need to change in order to be accepted. On the contrary, you feel so accepted and so cared for, that you feel safe enough to challenge yourself and to push yourself further than you’ve ever gone before.
Understand that it is possible to love being alone, instead of just trying to survive it. Understand also that even if you eventually find the most perfect person in the world for you, you still have to learn how to be alone.
We were all playing some sort of pile-up game and I was on top. One thing led to another.
Remember that spreading joy to others doesn’t take joy away from you – joy only multiplies when it is shared between people.
Taurus: As motivated as you are by success, wealth, and improvement, you need to make sure you’re putting 100% of your effort into everything you do, instead of spreading yourself too thin and only giving 20% or 30% of your effort to projects that turn out poorly and therefore cause you to feel frustrated and disappointed in yourself.
Nothing freaks them out. They’ve seen it all. Tantrums. Screaming matches. Full-on meltdowns. Anxiety attacks. Pants-wetting. It’s pretty hard to throw something at them that will be able to shake their mood.
Stop constantly trying (and failing) to ‘quit’ social media. Just learn how to take it with a grain of salt. Understand that as fun and addicting as it can be, it’s also largely full of crap. Yes, it’s super entertaining, but it’s also one large filter that makes everybody’s lives look prettier. Just have fun with it and remember not to take it as reality.