After interviewing 50 cheating men — and a number of their wives/ex-wives — there are several subtle changes that can take place and that women are usually unaware of until it’s too late.
The day I realized the “other woman” was a dude is the same day I found out that the name “Kim” is also a boy’s name.
Consequence is not the end point. In some men’s minds, cheating is the most prestigious way to end a relationship, and that’s not even the scary part.
It’s mine. It’s all mine. I can’t give him up. I’m sorry.
He says things like, “it’s not every day that I meet someone like you” and “You’re smart and funny and interesting.”
Regrets are a part of life. If you don’t have any, you aren’t living. As long as you’re continually trying to improve yourself there’s nothing to be ashamed of.
I had always been a bit of a romantic, wanting to sweep a girl off her feet and be that Prince Charming that I thought any girl would want.
It’s the age-old dilemma of desiring what you clearly can’t have.
You probably didn’t think it would matter; you probably figured it was just a little affair and we would never find out. We’ll just go on and live the rest of our lives completely unaffected by it, right?
17. Did you really think I wouldn’t find out?