“That’s the real meaning of love—having one another’s back.”
“When a person is unable to accomplish the necessary developmental task of sexual exploration, they have to find a way to do so away from the people who are controlling it.”
Really, I would never have it any other way.
When you sleep with a married man and he tells you how much he loves his wife, you tend to be hopeful that one day- a person will love you just as much.
Love never wanted to be started and bound and tied down by contracts, engagements, and marriages. It never wished to be ended by pieces of paper called divorces. It didn’t dream about being forced, being unhappy or making sacrifices.
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I never thought I would feel relief while being told I had been cheated on.
I guess the most disappointing thing is how sloppy he was. Like he didn’t even care enough to hide his tracks. Didn’t he know how it would tear me apart? How it would tear us apart?
It wasn’t easy to tell you that I couldn’t anymore. In fact it was the hardest thing I’d ever had to do.
Love accepts and embraces. Love doesn’t judge; it doesn’t own. Self-loathing judges and owns. Ego judges and owns. Love, well, loves.