Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.
We should be screaming at each other and throwing tantrums when we don’t get our way, right? Cry when our S.O. doesn’t pay attention to us?
After years of my-way-or-the-highway rhetoric, we’re starting to hear more nuanced messages from the author corps at last. The smartest minds in publishing know that it’s not a contest between two paths to publication but a long, daunting journey in a beleaguered market.
I have made the choice to take time away from the idea of dating. I am not making this choice because I am wallowing, rather I finally see a light at the end of the tunnel– I have found peace and clarity throughout the fog of heartbreak endured over the past few months. I honestly feel happier and healthier on my own than I have ever felt in a relationship.
In life, annoying stuff happens that you won’t be able to control, and there’s no use stewing over something that couldn’t be avoided.
These “naughty” children are most often the ones who will be the movers and shakers of the world. And they have a number of traits that you actually admire in adults you know or know of!
Most of your life epiphanies will happen on the bus… or train.
Please, please, please, come save us from ourselves D’s and I’s.
1) We’re capable of doing things for ourselves.
They are profoundly imperfect.