Keep growing. Keep waiting for that day that fabled teenage sex-drive kicks in for you and you find the opposite sex irresistible. Keep waiting.
Acquire career capital. And leverage it. This is how you get autonomy in the workplace.
Did I always love giving blowjobs? No. But, here I am today giving blowjobs and loving every minute (inch?) of it. Becoming a goddess (or god) of the meat pole takes time and patience…
I said, “You’re only 14 so if you get good at poker, you won’t need to go to college. If you get really good at this, you’ll always find ways to survive.”
Focusing on life happiness is too hard. That is the key to unhappiness.
Right now you are simply the nice little puppy that’s by her side. Be the bull dog that pulls her around a bit but also gives her awesome attention when he decides.
Feel time pass. Feel a weight start to lift. Be scared of what this means. Be scared that if you get better, you will forget him.
In a world filled with 7.1 billion people, there is only one human being who is exactly like you. In your city, in your town, in your building, there’s still only one you.
Don’t twist his sentences and dissect his words because men are generally not very deep humans.
Understanding how men think and what they need in a relationship makes an enormous difference.