Do NOT under any circumstances allow yourself to enter casual sex with a close friend or somebody you already have any ounce of remote feelings for.
A drink, or even several, does not mean anyone owes you sex. Or a phone number. They owe you nothing.
So several ‘almost relationships’ and heartbreaks later, I decided to become celibate and stop looking for love.
The problem with Americanized dating is that everyone falls in “like” but they don’t fall in love.
What social media ‘likes’ really mean. Does it mean they’re interested? Does it mean they’re trying to grab our attention? Does it even mean anything at all?
In a world of hook-ups and “I’m not into labels”, what is a girl who believes strongly in traditional romance to do?
You don’t do this often, or maybe you do, but you feel it in your heart and more importantly, your pants: you’re about to have a one night stand.
“When I was in my early twenties I tried to engage in casual sex because I thought that’s what women my age were supposed to do.”
The fact that I’m not expected to be a cookie cutter housewife in this era is a blessing. Because I don’t want that. Fuck your mini van. Fuck your picket fence.
Pushing the boundaries of surface level conversation gives you an edge that many people are too afraid to embody.