In a world filled with long commutes, frustrating relationships, and constant struggles, it can be difficult to stop and really admit just how blessed we are. But the secret to happiness that all happy people already know?

All that bullshit about needing to know what exactly it is that you want. Please don’t fool yourself into believing that you are determining things for yourself, putting something up there on the bulletin board, just to check it off later and sleep with the sweet satisfaction of calculating how far in life you are from your goal.