We want a girl who is serious about life, but don’t forget that if we are going to spend the rest of our life with you, we want a chick that’s cool too.
Maybe she thought she needed you at first. That she needed a body to hold at night when it got too dark to see. Or maybe she thought that she needed the reassurance of a hand or a hug. But I can guarantee you, she never needed it. She never needed you.
I know this makes me a hypocrite seeing as I always claim to want honesty from the people I am seeing.
You, in all your innocent, uninhibited love, have just thrust the object of your blind devotion into the blazing furnace of self-doubt. Don’t be surprised when they get…well, squirmier. This was your doing and you should take responsibility for it.
You make her calm. You will make her happy. She likes the thought of that. She desperately wants to love you.
“I feel warm & loved when my girl comes up behind me and kisses me on the back. I can’t explain. It’s not sexual. It’s just awesome.”
Our sense of belonging has been first to ourselves and that is what we have loved most about each other.
You need to let him go because he’s not worthy of the love you give him. He’s not worthy of the lust you give him. He’s not worthy of being in your head all day long.
Did we love each other? In our own distorted way, yes. But it wasn’t true love. True love puts the other first. True love is sacrificial.
You can be there through the worst of it. You can be there through the times where you think it will never end. All you have to do is be there.