That was it. No more communication. I have heard nothing from him since September last year. No checking to see if I’m okay, no late night drunken awkward texts, not even an “I miss you”.
You weren’t the one for her. The right one. The right person. But that doesn’t mean you won’t be the right person for someone else.
Guys are simple creatures. If he tells you he loves you, accept it. Finding a receipt from Chipotle for two will only cause your brain to short-circuit and implode until he mentions he bought his best friend dinner last night.
We want a girl who is serious about life, but don’t forget that if we are going to spend the rest of our life with you, we want a chick that’s cool too.
Maybe she thought she needed you at first. That she needed a body to hold at night when it got too dark to see. Or maybe she thought that she needed the reassurance of a hand or a hug. But I can guarantee you, she never needed it. She never needed you.
I know this makes me a hypocrite seeing as I always claim to want honesty from the people I am seeing.
You, in all your innocent, uninhibited love, have just thrust the object of your blind devotion into the blazing furnace of self-doubt. Don’t be surprised when they get…well, squirmier. This was your doing and you should take responsibility for it.
You make her calm. You will make her happy. She likes the thought of that. She desperately wants to love you.
“I feel warm & loved when my girl comes up behind me and kisses me on the back. I can’t explain. It’s not sexual. It’s just awesome.”
Our sense of belonging has been first to ourselves and that is what we have loved most about each other.