I think about you, a lot. Definitely a lot more than I’d like to admit. I wish I could just forget about you and move the hell on with my life already, but it’s not that easy.
For a few months, I held on to those connections because I thought I needed to. But I wondered, why do I need to hang on to people that I felt no compassion toward in my life?
A lot. Too many women don’t understand that “intimate private and secret stuff” doesn’t mean “except with my BFF because I tell her everything.”
Just because you’re attracted to someone doesn’t mean that feeling is going to last. Don’t ruin a perfectly good friendship for a momentary spark.
People who suffer from loneliness are not lonely because they don’t know enough people. Some of the most well-known, popular people around are lonely. The fix isn’t more people. It’s people who care.
I am giving up. Because I love him that much.
I woke the following morning to a new message on my feed; “Body found in search for missing teenager.”
Friendship shouldn’t be difficult. It shouldn’t be an act of congress to get together. There shouldn’t be a set of conditions that must be filled before you can call someone up. Most importantly, it shouldn’t be one-sided.
It’s like asking God for the right person to show up but when the right person shows up, you’re not there to open the door. Instead, your friend opens the door and says hi to your right person.
This is not the first time I’ve seen a woman question why men can’t be content to stay in the “friend zone” of their relationship, and it surely won’t be the last.