Tell people who you haven’t seen in awhile that you miss them. Make time for people who are important to you. Don’t be selfish with your praises, encouragements and apologies.Tell people you love them.
We are tribal, we are a community and we are not meant to do this alone
The person who talks the most usually has the least to say.
I want someone who knows it’s safe to be my friend but it’s dangerous to lose me as a lover. I want someone who’s not afraid of danger.
Sometimes, her drinking would begin as soon as she woke up, sipping a mix of orange juice and wine as she did her makeup and prepared for the day. It was something we joked about, something I thought was a quirky aspect of a friend I loved.
She is the Christina to your Meredith.
They are never happy for you. They might see everything you do as a benchmark to be better than you.
I wonder how you are. I have so many questions.
But the truth is our pride is a camouflage of our insecurities, of all the things that hurt us, of all the ones that broke our hearts, of all the times we felt like we’re not good enough and of all the times we didn’t love ourselves.
“She spent the entire time gossiping and bashing other people. It was clearly coming from a place of deep insecurity and unhappiness. But when I brought it up (as kindly as possible) she flipped a shit and hasn’t spoken to me since. So I guess she broke up with me. I think I’ll be fine.”