When you got sucked into a Facebook debate with a stranger and your BFF “liked” every point you made.
Ten years from now you won’t remember the test you failed or the interview you bombed or the underwhelming date that left you feeling pessimistic about the dating scene as a whole. What you’ll remember are the people who turned it all around.
The Instigator: She’s the reason everyone is out drinking in the first place. She’s usually the one who handles her liquor the best (from practice) and she’s often found urging everyone to have just one (four) more drink(s).
You never know if you should follow your heart or your mind because they’re at two very different places taking you to two opposite directions.
While you were a friend of convenience, these people actually mattered to you. You wanted them to be happy.
Because you need someone who’s going to fight like hell for you.
If he’s a douche. They also just know, even if he has the biggest smile on his face, they can tell if he’s not genuine and if he’s just playing you.
“It’s okay to be friendless every once in a while.”
She’ll say things like “You know that guy who I said has a big dick but is weird…” “I lost a lot of things last time—myself and my phone” or “in retrospect I would marry him” and you’ll ask yourself why you ever hang out with anyone else.
I always believed that friendship is resilient. That in the changes, we would still find comfort on one another’s shoulders.