You send her articles like this.
When we allow ourselves to become the best friend in our own lives, that person who we chose to be the leading lady starts to expect that level of (for lack of a better word) servitude from us.
If you live a negative life, then induce that negativity into them. You don’t believe in your dreams, so don’t let them believe in their dreams. Bring them back to the reality every time they let their thoughts go wild and start making plans to venture into the unknown.
You shouldn’t stay close because you feel like you have to. You should stay close because you want to and because you feel comfortable doing so.
Marry the one who makes you the best version of yourself. The one who believes in you, even when you don’t.
They’re the first person you go to for life advice: Should I quit my job? Can I use this Advil if it expired two years ago? How much longer do I have to wait before I can eat at Chipotle again?
When you two first starting dating, I’ll admit it was difficult for me. It was difficult for me not because you had him, but because with each new girlfriend, I felt a fear of losing the person who’s had my back for the last 10 years.
Keep suppressing the feeling. Ignore the signs that something that should be good is making you unhappy. Bury it deeper and decide it’s your problem.
You have been told countless times that you guys are going to end up together.
I know our limits wholeheartedly because we set them together. We know the risks. You know this much about me and you let me know this much about you.