I became a people-pleaser, a worshipper of approval. The very feeling of disappointing someone, or not being able to do enough to help, upsets me. And most times, I’d go out of my way just to avoid that feeling.
Ask every person for directions
To the friendships and relationships that fell through, thank you for teaching me that sometimes good things have to fall apart for better things to come together.
The fear of never having something to hold onto has pushed her into the worst case scenario. That fear has also put someone who is the epitome of sweet and light in one of the darkest places you can find.
Instead of trying to have a “best friend,” try to be the greatest friend you can be to everyone important in your life. It is amazing what things can be accomplished when there are no limitations or expectations.
5. “You don’t really look gay.”
Letting your friends go for any reason is never easy, but never feel threatened by the benefits of splitting up so each of you can walk your own path for a little while.
Friendship is being there when it might not be easy and it probably won’t benefit you. Love goes a long way.
Do you even know my last name? Now that I think of it, you don’t even know where I live because we always watch TV at your house and I always pick you up before we go out.
This is all from my personal experience, but like I said, I’m holding on to some seriously long guy-girl friendships.