Try choosing at least one item that showcases a little personality. You don’t want to look the same as every other woman – you want to stand out.
I would be fearless with the truth about my anxiety and in time, maybe I would truly feel that fearlessness.
I want to yell from the rooftops about just how excited I am to have met you, and to be feeling this way about you. But, something holds me back.
At this point every insecurity is screaming “no”. I’m thinking to myself, “I’m too fat for him. My nose is huge and my skin is being everything but easy to work with. I need to get the beauty filter from snapchat onto my face permanently, in real life”.
What’s something you’ve been really proud of lately?
My psychobabble happened to me on a third date; yes, a couple drinks in. Having not been on one of these in a while, I was fixated on the social pressures of everything the occurrence connotes: maybe we extend the evening a little more, maybe we air some dirty laundry.
It’s great to be an “open book” and freely share personal details. However, avoid talking about anything that’s too personal or traumatic.
Some of these are common sense, but some are really fascinating.
Local Brewery: Learn a little about local crafted beer together and have fun while you’re at it. We all know a little alcohol can take the edge off, especially on a first date.
If you screw up the first date you’re not gonna get a second!