Finding the one

Your partner shouldn’t be a twenty-five year old teenager, comfortably complacent, unmotivated and lazy. They should be on an upward path of constant self-improvement and inspire the same in you.

But the day I met you, everything had changed. I could see life in a whole new perspective. The day we looked into each other’s eyes for the first time, I had known in my heart that we could BE something. I knew in my heart that there HAD to be a reason for why I had met you.

it’s important to remember, it’s important to stop focusing on what a person lacks, what they could do better in, where they could make more effort. It’s important to stop chasing after this unrealistic prince charming, to stop placing expectations on a person because no one will ever measure up to an idea someone else has created of them.