There are many coincidences in life, but few coincidences in love. You might have met your mate by chance, but there is a reason you chose him/her among others, and there are other reasons yet that determined the trajectory of your relationship.
Finding the one
If one day I do meet my future husband it will be amazing because it is on God’s timing and not my own.
You don’t want to change them, but are happy to continue to fall in love with whoever they evolve into over time.
You don’t know what their absence feels like; they’re there beside you, even when they’re not. They’ve always been there, from the very first moment your eyes locked.
You became the place where I felt the safest, the most like myself. And I got lost in the security that only a well-built home can provide.
When you find the one, you will always find yourself smiling at the middle of the night as you go to bed, forcing you to open your phone once again and re-read all the conversations that led the butterflies flutter inside your stomach.
Maybe it’s timing, maybe it’s the circumstance, maybe it’s you, or maybe it’s me. But right now, I can’t look at you and say you’re the one I want. I can’t close my eyes and make something out of the space between us.
He makes you a better person. He wants you to improve and be the best self you can be because he loves you and he wants that for you.
Silence the clock and learn to be alone. For learning to be alone builds a tremendous amount of character and even though from a young age we are taught that time is of the essence, there is so much time and so much about yourself that you have yet to discover.
It could be the blind date you’re reluctant to go on, the ex you swore you would never go back to, the friend you only ever saw as a friend, or a perfect stranger you decided to chat up one day.