You think you are genuinely doing your best with him – but are you?
He’s manipulative, darling, the only problem with you is him.
“I’ll quit smoking/drinking for you. You’re more important.” Translation: Not happening. Never happening.
This guy basically needs to be pristine at all times. Everything about him is vanilla. He probably bleaches his socks, and showers in Axe body spray. He is about as interesting as a saltine cracker, but he’ll never admit it because he is trying too hard to come off as deep.