I will never be someone’s friend with benefits. Take me or leave me, but don’t expect me to be here ready and waiting for you when you get home.
Not all guys want to just get in your pants after the first date — though there is probably a large handful that do. Most of them are really just looking for that same connection us girls are looking for.
As impossible as it seems, and as many real world consequences as there are we need to let go of the concept that people will judge us based on our good intentions and not by how our actions measure up against their expectations (which have nothing to do with you).
A gift with an expectation is a muddied one-way transaction.
Tubing is a lot like your first job with one crucial difference: in tubing, your dad is there to rope in your half-naked body. Let me explain.
Expectations are made by an inner hope and reach for something even better than the current status we are in.
“Smile! Enjoy this evening. This is the happiest time of your life!”
If you want people to listen to what’s coming out of your mouth, they can’t be distracted by the fact that you look like you haven’t slept in a week.
Do men ever admit to women that they’re slightly crazy in the things that they expect out of women? Not really. I think that’s the way the game works though.
When we love without expecting anything back, we try. At least we try; there’s always that.