What response am I hoping to receive?
The ex that pops in and out of your life isn’t reappearing because stars are periodically aligning. They’re coming and going (probably literally and sexually if you know what I’m sayin’) because you’re letting them.
Get revenge by being selfish. By focusing everything you have on advancing your own happiness. By cultivating your talents to become a better artisan, by stepping outdoors and allowing your soul to reconnect with nature, by spending time in an empty room and letting your lungs learn to breathe without him.
Why are people so focused on finding the next one before getting over the last one?
If you have been on good terms with her family, say her mom or her brother, ring them up and say goodbye. You’ll want to come across as caring and genuine as possible during this phone call.
You can’t get that same thrill from any other person. It doesn’t matter how many dates you go on. Nobody makes you feel the same excitement you felt when you were with your ex.
The truth is, I’m not really happy for you. I’m not over the moon you fell in love with a girl and see a future with her now. I’m not happy. Even though that’s what I told you.
I said nothing, I felt nothing and I just kept scrolling. I just went on with my day like I’ve done for all these years without you. I remember who you used to be when you loved me, but I have no idea who you are anymore.
If you want to know how to feel better after a break up, it’s important to step back and take a look at the relationship and why the break up is hurting so much.
Whenever you mention another guy, he starts asking a million questions. He’s obviously not okay with you seeing someone else.