Lovers leave. Significant others screw up. This person wasn’t supposed to. This person was supposed to be your safe place.
Trust your first impression. Do not chase him. Do not make excuses for him.
A healing crisis is often part of the healing process. If we want to be true to ourselves, we have to release our old wounds and conditioning. Some people call this healing, others integration.
I won’t keep destroying myself by putting the experience of finding unconditional love in another.
It isn’t going to be love. Because he doesn’t know how to love. Because he is not capable of real love.
Because you’re flawed and human and never too proud to admit when you’re wrong.
I can see it in your eyes, the dark pools where your sanity swims in. You hate yourself as much as I do.
While you’re busy dwelling on what you want and what was, he’s busy moving forward and there’s no reason you should rub your own nose in that.
Going from and us, a we, a them…to an I, a me…singular and alone in the world is scary and frightening when you have no control over it.
Never, ever underestimate how powerful you are. Having a big heart is your strength.