Even your unhappiness in a relationship doesn’t make it all right. Unhappiness is no excuse for dishonesty.
Girls can be tricky and mysterious, so I thought I’d lend a helping hand to you gentlemen in need of some guidance.
“I just need a girl to come over and make my apartment look presentable for when other girls come over.”
You put yourself out there. You risked your emotions, you became vulnerable, and by investing your happiness in a completely different person outside yourself, you took a huge leap of faith. Sometimes we fall from those.
Hate to break it to you, but nobody on earth is going to “complete” you. There is no such thing.
5. Ignore them. Wonder why they don’t notice you ignoring them.
It will hurt in a completely and utterly different way than it hurt the first time, but it’s going to be pain all the same. It is a subtler pain. A refined pain.
Ever wonder what it’s like to not have to go through airport security?
“So much gel that your hair might as well be a helmet. Doesn’t that hurt or break off?”
We are not princesses. We are not dolls. And men certainly do not owe us anything more than mutual respect.