The beauty is people in talking circles don’t have to like each other – and there’s no persuasion to agree or attempt at conversion. The only requirement is to show up and do your very best to see and hear one another.
Any reply of acknowledgement is better than silence. It will go a long way in making your business sustainable.
Words can be deceiving. In order to make sure we truly understand what is going on, we must be conscious of the way we are truly presenting ourselves.
I’m suggesting men must do what men often do best: set goals and create a plan to achieve them.
There are many, many ways to experience pleasure and connection.
What am I like in your mind?: This is a good question because they’re likely to reveal what they like about you, what they don’t like about you …and ideally both.
“Death grip. I feel like a lot of girls think guys like it when you just grab the fuck on and jerk it like your pumping water from a well.”
You promise the universe that if given another chance you will tell them something worthwhile. You will treat them better. You resort to anger sometimes, over why they had to make you feel this way. A simple message could relieve you of your dread.
“When you come to us to unload, and if this happens too often, we are overwhelmed with the combination of our own problems plus yours.”
Talk to me, because I am ready to listen to every rant, every worry, every curiosity, every doubt, every concern you have in that mind of yours.