Focus. Focus. Focus. Click. Click. New focus. Change. Text. Check messages.
This is me breaking the cycle and talking about it.
Until recently, I’ve always questioned the workings of choosing a partner. I
Just as there is a proper etiquette for having a face-to-face verbal discussion, like maintaining appropriate eye-contact and tone of voice, there are rules to follow when texting to communicate in the most effective way possible.
While I am grateful for what they do, I can’t help but also see the humor in the messages I receive.
I was once a boy, now I’m a man. It took me 29 years to get there, but I’ve arrived. It’s more than most men can say.
And perhaps that’s what makes vulnerability so difficult – seeing your state of being, when you remove all the embellishments and pretenses and performances.
How do you know when it is the right time to get all mushy-gushy with your significant other and admit your feelings? Well, most of the time you don’t.
Alone, lonely, faceless strangers in the midst of a crowd.
I am not saying that technology is affecting how readily we fall in love…at least, not yet.