I want to laugh till our abs hurt and we look at each other lying on the floor thinking how beautifully messed up we are!
“I want a relationship that I definitely want to be in, if it’s an almost, it’s an uncertainty, it’s a maybe. In my opinion, that’s not a relationship worth starting.”
This next year, I’ve made a goal of change, of enthusiasm, of resolve, of healing, and most significantly, of commitment.
Don’t be delusional and fool yourself into thinking that he had commitment problems. He just didn’t like you enough to commit to you.
You aren’t capable of convincing people that they’re wrong, and you shouldn’t even try. And that’s not because he’s not worth fighting for; it’s because you shouldn’t have to convince anyone that you’re valuable.
Insensitivity is a curse. Sensitivity is a blessing.
I wasn’t ready for commitment with you. I wasn’t ready to compromise. I wasn’t ready to let myself be vulnerable to hurt.
Appreciate his loyalty to family and friends, and his need to spend time without you in other relationships. Never compete for his affection with people who are important in his life.
There would be days when I would hate you for not being able to make everything better, even while knowing that it is not humanely possible for you to do so.
You’re trying to convince yourself you’re happy. Happiness isn’t something you have to convince yourself you have, it’s something you feel and know is real.