There’s nothing as endearing as those little moments when you realize someone really cares about your comfort.
Each time we freak out, we slowly but surely kill off the few gentleman that are left in the world.
I asked myself this foremost question: “Why is everything that men do, short of an impassive, emotionless response, considered to be creepy?”
Be clear with your intentions. “Hanging out” is not dating, and if you aren’t interested in someone enough to go out on a limb and ask to take them to dinner, you probably aren’t interested in them enough to be dating them at all.
“It’s definitely not dead, but it’s kind of in a vegetative state; it’s on life support. Chivalry is in a coma.”
Is the line starting to blur between being a gentleman and being a chauvinist?
Put your own happiness first.
We’ve exchanged “I love yous” for likes on selfies, flowers for dick pics, “good morning” texts for morning walks of shame, dates for “Netflix and chill.” There’s no more effort, no more spark.
Everything in life has a purpose and everything that happens teaches us a lesson, right? By the time we reach our mid-20s we’ve learned about 98% of these lessons and there will only be dozens more each year. Maybe the lesson was different for you, but the moment is the same for us all.
These are things that men used to do in past eras—behaviors that I wish the men of my generation would adopt today.