You play the blame game and you play it well.
We know the typical telltale signs: weight loss, new music or food interests, the purchase of a new wardrobe. But if your affair radar is up—because your partner’s behavior just feels off or out of the ordinary—here are 13 not-as-conspicuous signs you may be overlooking.
“Everyone cheats,” he stated flatly.
I’m loud, self-assured, overbearing at times. At least that’s how people know me. But when you start to fall in love with me, I become vulnerable.
He will pull you in for a hug while texting me behind your back.
A few months later, his wife got pregnant and I think his world was crashing down before his eyes.
We matched. He messaged me, “hi.”
If you have the propensity to cheat, then maybe it’s time to step away from relationships entirely. Because the notions you have on what it takes to be faithful are clearly flawed.
When there is a longer than tolerable lapse of these needs in their current relationship or in their life in general, they will seek out ways to fill the gaps.
Somewhere along the way, things got hard. Maybe it was the distance, maybe it was something or someone else. Whatever it was, the end result is the same: our love for each other isn’t enough to sustain a relationship.