When he spun words that you always longed to hear, they meant everything to you and nothing to him. Because in the end, he was getting what he wanted from you at his convenience, and you were playing a game he had rigged from the beginning.
Cheating doesn’t happen in happy relationships. This I believe fully.
Everyone makes mistakes, big and small. Giving people you know and love an understanding, non-judgmental front is so important for honesty and growth.
Really, I would never have it any other way.
“Life is short; have an affair.”
What’s wrong with straight people? This is sad.
1. The sexually deprived man in a “happy” marriage seeking a “mutually assured destruction pact” (MADD).
It is in fact true and I hate to say it, but anyone can meet someone else or be intimate with someone at any stage in a relationship whether there is a title attached or not, it’s just whether we label it as cheating or not. It hurts either way if you care about someone.
No one will ever understand the exact pain that you’re going through, though some will say that they totally get it and can help you, and do remember that some of them have felt something very similar, but your feelings are uniquely your own.
I’ve never been a faithful partner. Not once.