Work on yourself first.
1. They just opened up a Cici’s Buffet within walking distance of your apartment.
Relationships are tricky, can be messy, and are generally really complicated. This is true when you’re 17, in high school, and don’t have a solid grasp on how to cover up zits. But it’s also true when you’re 25, have your own health insurance and cell phone plan, but happen to be drinking wine in the afternoon.
He listens to you. He doesn’t just give the occasional head nod or surprised facial expression to feign his interest.
Because even if you win, you lose.
I had my first girlfriend in 10th grade. We were friends for a while. Because we were so comfortable with one another, I took that as a sign that we should start dating. So, I asked her out, thinking the sexual attraction would come in time.
Forfeiting this game is the reason I just won.
My job, as told to me by my editors, is to offer male insight into their conundrums.
Some people come into your life as transient spiritual workers, then leave a tiny footprint on your heart as they walk on by, and you’re never the same. Others are like a thorn in your ass that you got from running into a rose bush. Either way, everyone is a teacher.
The idea upset me greatly at first. The idea of sharing my boyfriend with another woman did not appeal to me in the slightest, even if I had indeed been the tiniest attracted to girls in the past.