When you have no contact with your ex, you have far more control over your mood and it gives you that emotional distance that you absolutely need in order to get over the relationship. If you keep maintaining unnecessary contact, time won’t make you feel any better, it will just prolong the entire process.
This person is not obligated to spend the rest of their lives with you — in fact, they have the right to break off the relationship at any time… even tomorrow.
Until you come along, here are just a few things I wanted you to know.
3. You start to get a little crazy, but only a little crazy.
I tell my story in hopes that someone else will tell theirs. That someone, somewhere, will realize that their story is not one of shame, but one of courage.
At some point, every woman will date someone of whom their friends and family won’t approve.
It’s like having another girl friend. DO NOT tell him this, his brain will liquify.
A few months later, his wife got pregnant and I think his world was crashing down before his eyes.
Tell her, “We need to talk…” then don’t respond.
If you have the propensity to cheat, then maybe it’s time to step away from relationships entirely. Because the notions you have on what it takes to be faithful are clearly flawed.