Being single may seem scary, but you get to put yourself first again – and that is an exciting prospect.
5. You feel that if you were just different somehow that things would improve.
When he made you feel like you were just too emotional and hysterical.
I found out that it’s never about them, it’s you. People will come and go, and you can never control how they intend to treat you. You can only control what you let them eventually do upon you.
Problems can’t always be ignored. We’re a team and we need to learn how to deal with them together, whether the problems are mine, yours, or ours.
3. You’re Going Through the Motions
Life is too fragile to settle for a partner who is abusive, for a connection that is one-sided, for being with someone who sucks the energy and happiness from you on a daily basis. You are a person of value. You deserve care. You deserve respect.
Suddenly, love was mornings spent laughing until I cried. It was having someone make time for me. Love was airport gates, until it turned into “I am moving across the country to be with you.”
When you feel lonely most of the time. If the relationship makes you feel lonely, then what’s the point? If you can’t share your life with the person you’re with, then you’re not in a real relationship.
My beauty comes out the most when I’m happy. I look the most beautiful when I’m doing something I love.