By thanking a guy who treated you poorly for “making you stronger” or for “helping you realize what you deserve”, what you are really telling him is that how he treated you was okay
It’s time to understand that you had absolutely no say in how long someone stayed in your life, that you couldn’t have loved them any more, that you couldn’t have bent them into someone who understood the core of you.
But let me tell you this: you gave me the reason to hate relationships and to fear intimate interactions.
You don’t have to admit it, but that person changed you. For better or for worse, they taught you more about yourself than you would have ever learned on your own.
When we’re in a difficult relationship we often don’t know where our partner begins and we end.
I hope karma visits you as a ghost of everyone you’ve ever hurt and everyone you didn’t confront. I hope karma doesn’t destroy all of you, I hope it destroys you piece by piece so you can feel the excruciating pain of each piece and remember who this piece belongs to.
You were a storm – a complete and utter chaos. I drowned in your crashing waves.
After a while you’ll know the difference between someone who holds your hand and someone who touches your soul. You’ll understand that words are not contracts and promises can be broken.
Real love means that you change and grow together. Real love demands more.
They don’t make plans according to your schedule, they just let you to wait around all day for them and automatically expect that you will be ready and at their service when they come calling.