Taking anti-depressants is not giving up, it is a privilege.
Love S.U.C.K.S, doesn’t it? Not “sucks,” but Seems Unusually Confusing & Kinda Scary. This book was written for those who feel a little dysfunctional in the world of relationships but haven’t quite given up hope on finding love, either.
When you love the idea of someone, you’re setting yourself up to be disappointed. You’ve crafted such a grandiose dream that there’s just no way the real person can live up to it.
When things get a little rough, some of your fellow travelers may question your intentions. Others may turn back. Some may even try to throw you off course. The people who are more preoccupied with your quest than their own are meant to get left behind.
“Wait. You don’t have to ‘give it up’ for them to be anymore into you. You don’t have to wait until your married or anything, but be smart, think about the consequences and above all, respect yourself.”
Too much sunshine can make a desert.
I think for a lot of 20-somethings, there’s this panic after college that’s like, “Oh shit, this is it.” It’s a very turbulent time period, dramatic ups and downs. Being with my family reminded me to let go of the things that don’t matter. Not everything that goes wrong has to be treated like the end of the world.
When my dad told me to ‘play the field.’ No thanks.
I don’t mean to live like there is no tomorrow. I mean to live like today matters. Live like this moment is precious and each moment after is too.
Sometimes you move out from your comfort zone and start off a new journey recklessly and unprepared. You realizing (too late) that it’s not as easy as you thought it would be.