He’ll never tell you the things that matter. He’ll never speak of his truth. He’ll never have real answers for your questions.
You’ll never fall in love with anyone else quite like us.
Numbers Make You Cold. We’ve been conditioned to think you have to date and date often in order to be happy. Thanks to all the dating options available, it’s hard for anyone to narrow down their choices.
Real, passionate love is going to be hard. And maybe by telling ourselves to leave, to move on, to let go, to search for another, we’re really just teaching ourselves that relationships and love are impermanent. Maybe all we’re really teaching ourselves is to give up
We want the happily ever after, but we don’t want to put the effort in the here and now. We want the deep connection, while keeping things shallow. We long for that world series kind of love, without being willing to go to bat.
Agreeing to a date is just that- agreeing to a date. It is an opportunity to discover if you might be interested in someone. It is not an obligation to be interested and certainly not an obligation to be intimate.
Go hiking- but wear the silliest outfits each of you can find!
Normal dating was a nightmare so I hacked it.
Instead of meeting each other organically then finding out even the most basic info, nowadays people are likely to know most things about their date before even deciding to date thanks to Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, personal websites, etc.
If they’re not in an emotional space where they can handle further responsibilities, it might be a considerable wait before they’re ready to settle down