I want to do all the things that fill my soul with passion, all the things that society looks down upon because it’s not “together” or “professional.” I want to do those things because those are the things that make me feel like life is worth living, so I’m not going to stop.
1. The Party Animal. You probably can’t count on them if you need a ride home from the airport or emotional support after your boyfriend dumps you, but if you wanna party, hit ’em up.
Sometimes we really don’t know what to do with our lives to the point that we blame our parents and even ourselves why we are not as successful at this certain age as what we’ve pictured we’d be but you have to know that things work differently for all of us that’s why it’s best to really find yourself in a city far from home.
It can be hard enough to convince ourselves we’re enough – the last thing we need is to convince our partner we’re enough.
We’re given this unlimited freedom to take literally any path in the world and there’s no direction or guidance. We become so overwhelmed by options and choices that we don’t know exactly what to do, so most of us settle.
Instead of acknowledging you’re the reason you’re stuck you blame other people.
You are only in your 20s once. You will never, ever get this time back. One day someone will wake up at their dead-end job still doing errands for their boss and realize “I wasted my life” – don’t be that guy.
The drinks have changed, too. Beers traded for coffees. Shots traded for cocktails. Nowadays we go out and just talk. It’s a change from the nights focused on hooking up, binge drinking, throwing up and forgetting it all by 10 AM.
You are your own hardest critic. Lighten up on yourself a little bit.
Being single says nothing negative about who you are as a person. Being someone’s significant other isn’t your only goal in life and if you choose to pursue other things instead of love, then good for you.